Violence – a family tradition

This is very lovely in that the harm that spanking creates is very simply explained. Please listen.

“Spanking is sanctioned violence against children”

stop_signRobbyn Peters Bennett, LMHC, CMHS is a psychotherapist, educator, and child advocate who specializes in the treatment of trauma-related mental health problems resulting from the effects of early childhood stress, abuse and neglect. She is the founder of, a non-profit dedicated to educating the public on the dangers of spanking. She is on the steering committee of The U.S. Alliance to End the Hitting of Children. Robbyn is currently producing a documentary, The Last Resort, about the cultural practice of spanking children.



The Raising of America: let’s give our kids what they need

h/t to @TwigTops on twitter who keeps this website: The culture of abuse

The youtube description:

raising americaAre We Crazy About Our Kids? (32 minutes) is one of the supporting episodes to the forthcoming documentary series, The Raising of America: Early Childhood and the Future of Our Nation, now in production.

Science has demonstrated that a child’s experiences during the earliest years are vital to building the foundation for life-long individual success — in school and in life.

Now economists are studying the costs and benefits of high quality early care and preschool. And they’re worried. Not because we’re spending too much but because we’re spending too little where it matters most.¬†(more from

A related post. Preventing trauma and abuse in kids and supporting them in meaningful ways as they grow up should be a critical priority: The Adverse Childhood Experiences Study

Adverse Childhood Experiences: Risk Factors for Substance Abuse and Mental Health

The speaker in the video, Dr. Robert Anda, emphasizes that most mental health problems and substance abuse issues are not genetically determined even if there is some genetic association. More important is the environment that people are subjected to when they are young. If we prevent adverse child experiences we will prevent most of what gets labeled mental illness. These injurious childhood experiences are very common.  That means we need to heal society. That means we need to heal the whole family. That means we need to heal ourselves.

The very brief video explains how Adverse Childhood Experiences effect the wellbeing of children and the adults they grow into:

The Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) Study assess associations between childhood maltreatment and later-life health and well-being. In this video, Dr. Robert Anda, a co-Principal investigator of the study, describes the relationship of ACEs to many of the nation’s worst health and social problems, including substance abuse.

h/t ACES too High

There is more information on The Adverse Childhood Experiences Study here on Beyond Meds

For much more information on trauma and PTSD and how it effects mental and physical well-being see this page: Trauma infographic and links to more info too

A quote from this above linked page:

As a social worker and clinician working with ‚Äúthe seriously mentally ill‚ÄĚ for many years, I never came upon someone who didn‚Äôt have fairly severe traumas in their histories. Yes, I can say those who were in that labeled segment had a solid 100% rate of trauma in their histories. Mental illness in large part is a reaction to trauma. It‚Äôs quite simple really. When we start listening to people‚Äôs stories of pain rather than numbing them out and effectively silencing them with neurotoxic drugs we will start healing them. Until then people will remain broken. One of the most basic needs for a wounded human being to heal is to be seen. Recognized. Validated. Yes.

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