Words for all in the “helping” professions (and for any human who wants to benefit others)

Helping, fixing and serving represent three different ways of seeing life. When you help, you see life as weak. When you fix, you see life as broken. When you serve, you see life as whole. Fixing and helping may be the work of the ego, and service the work of the soul….

…Serving is different from helping. Helping is not a relationship between equals. A helper may see others as weaker than they are, needier than they are, and people often feel this inequality. The danger in helping is that we may inadvertently take away from people more than we could ever give them; we may diminish their self-esteem, their sense of worth, integrity or even wholeness. — Dr. Rachel Naomi Remen, extracted from the November Upaya Newsletter

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By Rachel Naomi Remen:

●  Kitchen Table Wisdom 10th Anniversary

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About Monica Cassani

Author/Editor Beyond Meds: Everything Matters