Once you've scolded someone for their understanding of their experience they will no longer trust you. At that point communication becomes exponentially more difficult. Everyone has a unique experience of the world and particular wisdom from that experience. First published on Facebook
Blaming has no positive effect at all
When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don’t blame the lettuce. You look into the reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with our friends or our family, we blame the other... Continue Reading →
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