To those of us for whom father’s day is only a rememberance of pain

There are hundreds of thousands of us who had cruel, abusive, mean fathers. Today I send healing thoughts of love to all of us. We don't have to pretend it didn't happen. Peace to you.

Further extraction from the system — email to my very nice therapist

Dear Therapist, I don't want to pay for relationships anymore. It seems to me it's inherently unhealthy and unnatural, contrived and toxic to ones soul. (or my soul anyway...I won't speak for others) I like you a lot but it feels wrong. Paying for intimacy. Seems to be a really messed up element of modern/capitalistic... Continue Reading →

Quote of the day

Sometimes a breakdown can be the beginning of a kind of breakthrough, a way of living in advance through a trauma that prepares you for a future of radical transformation. -- Cherrie Moraga

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