The value of the state of frustration

One of the obstacles is the demand that we be happy, that we enjoy our lives. I think it’s a huge distraction, and it’s very very undermining, I think. So, living in a quasi-hedonistic culture, I think it’s a big problem. It’s wrong because, if we are to make this crude, in the old days whenever that was, there was an internal injunction to be good. Now the injunction is to be happy, or to be enjoying yourself. And the reason this is a distraction is because life is also painful, in other words—and it’s a very simple thing and its very obvious—and it starts in childhood—which is that if someone can satisfy you, they can also frustrate you. This is ineluctable, this is structural, it is never going to change. This means that everybody has to deal with ambivalence. They are going to have to deal with the fact that they love and hate the person they love and hate.

Falling into grace

I read Falling into Grace, by Adyashanti a while back. I wanted to share these few paragraphs on page 2 and 3 because they simply delighted me. The author is speaking as an adult and remembering his childhood: As I watched and observed, day after day, week after week, month after month, even year after year, one... Continue Reading →

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